A lot of people seem to keep away from churches because they think they’ll have to be super-Christians: teaching sunday school, baptizing babies, never swearing ever, being the most blameless & blaming angel in the world, judging the non-believers & living & breathing church.
But that’s not the case at all. If any church ropes you into doing those things when you don’t want to, that’s not your problem. People have “callings”. If you don’t feel called to do something, you don’t have to do it.
What’s more, people feel like if they just sit in church on Christmas & Easter, they’ll be set & they don’t have to believe or do anything. Conversely, there are people who think you have to go to church every Sunday or God hates you. Neither of those are true.
Here’s how we work at my church: